Kinks In My Hose

“And we guarantee it will work!” The only words less believable are, “We are going to lower your taxes!”

Most of us have experienced the frustration of spending good money on a product, only to have it fall short of it’s promised performance?

A wise man once said, “You get what you pay for.” Two years ago I bought a cheap garden hose to use in my back yard. This hose was a pain. When I rolled it up, it developed so many kinks that it folded more than it rolled.

The kinks made the simple job of watering flowers much more difficult than it needed to be. It took longer to get the water flowing through the hose than it took to water the flowers.

The next year I spent the extra money for a hose that was “guaranteed” not to kink. You guessed it, the hose kinked because… of course it did!


I was convinced that the kinkless hose had worked fine for everyone in the world but me!

It works for everyone but me! Have you ever felt that way about your relationship with God?

  • We believe that prayer only works for select few. Most of us know “that person” who when they ask God for a blessing, God replies, “Here take two!”
  • Or we believe that the good parts of the Bible only apply to highly favored individuals.
  • Have you ever felt that God loves everyone but you? I say that jokingly (but not really).

Deep down we know these things are not true, but sometimes when our lives are filled with kinks, we feel that way!

Three things to remember when your life gets kinked up:

1. God Allows Kinks

Someone once wrote that, “There is nothing in life that touches us, until it has first passed through the hands of God.”

It’s kind of tough to accept, but it’s true, in Christ we can trust that the kinks that are there, are for our good.

If it were not for the kinks in life, would there be a time that we turn to Him alone for guidance, protection or provision?

Without the kinks God allows, our faith would cease to grow!

If we were transparent for a moment, how many times in the last week have your thoughts turned to God without some type of kink being involved?

2. God Uses Kinks

Sometimes God uses the kinks to move His people.

The persecution of the first church in Jerusalem would surely been viewed as a kink. But God used that kink to start a worldwide missions’ movement.

Ultimately, a kink is how we had the opportunity to hear the Gospel!

Many times what we see as trials (kinks), God is using as opportunities to move His plan forward.

3. God Limits The Kinks

God has promised not to let the kinks grow beyond what we can bear (I Corinthians 10:13).

He has also promised that when the floods of life threaten to overwhelm us, that He will be there to walk with us through the floods (Isaiah 43:2).

The kinks we are facing are temporal, they will not last forever. One day we will see and understand their benefit – the hard part of this sentence is – one day.

If God has allowed the kinks, can we trust that He is using them for His good and ours?

In I John 1:5 we read that in God there is “no darkness at all.” This means that as His children we have nothing to fear from God. How different would things be if instead of doubting God because of the kinks, we worked at praising Him for the work He is doing through them?

Kinks2Could we grow in our faith by seeing the kinks as evidence of His love for us as He brings us to trust Him more and more?

We can begin by praising Him for caring enough about us to allow a kink in our life!

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Does God Care How We Do Devotions?

Have you ever just wanted to punch someone in the face for going on and on about how wonderful their morning devotions were?


It happens to most of us at some point. We get up with the best of intentions only to experience DGS (devotion guilt syndrome). DGS causes us to skip, or feel inadequate about our devotional time. We have heard the what, where, when and how message a million times, yet so often we choose to begin our day unequipped to face it.

Ever been there? Why does the thought of doing devotions seem so daunting to us?

·      Many simply don’t know how to go about it. After all, the thought of coming into the presence of God is an intimidating thing that you would not want to mess up.

·      Others feel like they are not properly equipped. If you are not a pastor how can you begin to understand those sixteen letter theological words and Old English phrases.

·      Some believe that devotions really do not make a difference (and they would be wrong).

·      The big one is, “I JUST DON’T HAVE TIME”, (they also would be wrong).

Just to be transparent, all the illustrations above have been true in my life at one point or another. Two quick thoughts and we will move on:

·      Work at being intentional. Set aside the time each morning (or evening). Set an alarm to get you up early or to remind you that it is time for some God time.

·      Accept the fact that there will be Devo2days that you have, Duhhhh Devotions. There will be mornings that you are exhausted, distracted or you are just not feeling it. Befaithful to push through those days. Those Duhhhh Days will often transform themselves into the best devotions.

One common question is, “What we do for devotions?”

Many people are intimidated by devotions because they feel they need four songs, a three-point message and an offering to be effective.

While everyone has an opinion about how to do devotions, in the end all that matters is that they are meaningful to us!

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Let me share three quick devotion hacks for those with a crazy lifestyle.

1.     A Devotional Book

There are hundreds of resources out there that can spark your morning devotions. Most of us over 30 have encountered books like “Our Daily Bread” and “Days of Praise” which are still available today.

A daily devotional book that is set up for each day of the year is a great tool. I would suggest a book written in contemporary English for morning devotions because it requires less concentration on unfamiliar words. Remember, some mornings you will have the Duhhhh’s.

I am currently using Paul David Tripp’s book “New Morning Mercies“. Each day can be read in about 10 minutes and then it connects you to a related Scripture. It is an excellent resource.

2.   YouVersion

If you find yourself doing devotions on the fly (we know it happens) the YouVersion app is a valuable resource to have on your smart phone or tablet.

Devo4YouVersion provides many different Bible reading plans in many different versions of the Bible.

One added bonus is that many of the Bible versions can be listened to during drive time or at the gym. What’s wrong with strengthening body and soul at the same time?

3.     Social Media

While social media can have its negative side, it can also be a tremendous resource for devotional blogs, podcasts and webpages.

Many of these sites can set a spark that will get you into your Bible or listen to while getting ready for work.
Some of these are “non-traditional”, but again the intent is not to develop devotions that are meaningful to others, but to develop something that works for and is meaningful for you.

Anything that will bring you closer to God on a daily basis is a great thing. The most important part of daily devotions is just doing it!

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No Blood In The Strawberry Shortcake

Most of us have a favorite recipe that our Grandmother made. For me it would be chocolate cake with chocolate icing – not frosting – icing! I can still smell it sitting on the counter in the kitchen.

One of my favorite recipes to make is my Mother-In-Laws shortcake, especially during strawberry season! For the first 35 years of our marriage we tried to make this recipe, only to have it fall short every time.

Just a word of warning men, never I mean NEVER say, “It does not taste like Mom’s used to!”

SC2 (1 of 1)On a trip home a few years ago we discovered the issue, our copy of the recipe was missing an ingredient. It seems one teaspoon of baking soda can make a big difference!

One of my greatest joys as a Grandfather is cooking with my Grand kids. My oldest has been cooking with me since she sat in a car seat on the counter.

Last weekend I had the opportunity to make Grandma’s strawberry shortcake with one of my surrogate Grand kids (she adopted me)! We had a great time mixing the ingredients and preparing the recipe for the oven.

Once the batter was in the oven, the next step was to cut up the strawberries. A few quick instructions and we were slicing and dicing! After a few minutes she quietly said, “Mommy has never let me cut before.” Good information to know and time for additional instruction!

SC1 (1 of 1)A short lesson on proper cutting technique and finger preservation moved the project forward. My most important rule was, no blood in the strawberry shortcake! On a couple occasions she stopped to examine her fingers and ask if the red stuff on her fingers was strawberry or blood!

Soon the bowl was filled with perfectly cut strawberries and no finger matter. YES!

How often do we stop to consider that God finds the same kind of joy as He works in our lives? He loves doing life with His children as He gives instructions, provides the necessary resources, and helps to equip us for the next step. He finds joy in our success and gets excited as He awaits to see how the final product turns out!

Fortunately for us, God is very patient in the process. Like a Grandfather working with someone he loves, God will patiently teach us how to achieve the desired results. But we must:

  1. Follow Instructions

If we had not followed the recipe as instructed, the shortcake would not have turned out.

If Mak had not followed my instructions on how to use the knife properly, it could have resulted in stitches (and my death)!

For our lives to turn out according to God’s design, we must be willing to listen to what the Father is telling us.

Some have called the Bible, God’s Instruction Manual, but in truth the Bible is so much more than that. Christ said that His words, “Are Life!”

John 6:63 It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.

We would be wise to listen to the words that give us life!

  1. Focus On The Task

While baking, distractions can cause use to miss or double an ingredient that can ruin the whole dish.

If you have ever lost your focus while cutting something up, you know that there can be painful consequences. And you can violate the rule of no blood in the strawberry short cake!

The calling (the task) God has given us requires our full attention. If we become distracted the end result could affect eternity.

  1. Care About What We Are Doing

As we cooked that day it was important that our culinary creation turn out right because we were excited to share our with our family.

As Christians, God has left us here with instructions to accomplish His will. The work we are doing is eternally important and it’s for His (our) family. Because of that, we need to be passionate about how we go about it. We cannot afford to just be going through the motions.

God has given us the recipe to produce the desired results. But the end result depends on how closely we follow His instructions, focus on the task and care about what we are doing!


Have you checked the instructions today?Sc3

In what area of your calling do you need to refocus?

How will you demonstrate that you care today?

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