Have you ever experienced one of those moments of absolute mental brilliance? The kind that you are not sure you will survive?
If you are like me the answer is, many of them…
One of my greatest came two years ago when I made plans for a solo hike in Northern Arkansas. My goal was to hike into Hemmed in Hollow and proceed off trail about a mile and a half. I wanted to spend the next day camping on a ridge reading my Bible and praying. A noble goal to be sure.
On a beautiful July day, I congratulated myself on how quickly I was able to make the descent to the waterfall where the trail ended. I had completed the off trail section twice before with friends but each time it was in the early spring. I soon discovered that the summer landscape was much different to navigate because of the thick overgrowth.
Tangles of briers and vines made each step strenuous (and painful). About a mile in, drenched in sweat and blood, I had the sudden revelation that I was in trouble.
In the struggles of the last mile I had consumed almost half of my water. Even if I conserved I would not have enough for my day on the ridge and the hike out the next day.
I cautiously began to make my way back to the trail where I would be able to replenish my water from the stream and wash up a bit. I found a place to camp for the night and hiked out the next morning.
On the drive home I reflected on the hike. I had to admit that if I had stayed on the trail (the way my wife wanted me to) it would have been a great hike. The trouble came when I made the choice to get off the trail and be alone in the wilderness.
As men, we all find ourselves alone in a wilderness at some point. Most of the time that wilderness looks much different from a trail in Northern Arkansas.
The wilderness may be in front of a computer screen, a place on the drive home or a situation in the office. There are thousands of scenarios where we can find ourselves alone in a crowd and separated from the resources we need.
The world tells us we need to be strong, independent and tough it out. But God’s Word tells us something much different.
• We Were Not Created To Be Alone
Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Usually we hear this verse and immediately connect it to marriage. While it is true that God was talking about a mate for Adam, there are times that marriage itself can be a wilderness.
Because God said, “It is not good for man to be alone”, we can make application that we were not created to do life alone. We are in this together.
• There Is Danger In Being Alone
Many of you have heard the illustration of how a pack of lions will attack a herd of animals much larger than they are. As the lions spook the herd they concentrate on separating one animal from the rest. Once they have the animal isolated it quickly becomes dinner.
Being alone in the wilderness exposes us to all kinds of attacks. We may think we are strong enough to stay there for a while, but if Satan tempted Jesus in the wilderness what makes us think we are exempt?
Whatever our wilderness looks like, we are in trouble if we choose to be alone there for very long.
• There Is An Alternative To Being Alone
Proverbs 27:17 Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.
As I made a rather defeated trek up out of the valley that day, I thought about how different the same hike was when I made it a year ago with eight friends.
Together we encouraged each other. We laughed, shared stories and helped each other over the tough sections of the trail.
The same vines and briars were there to pull at us and cut us, but it seemed easier when everyone else was being shredded up too!
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As Christians God has provided everything we need to avoid being alone in the wilderness. There is only one thing that will keep us there and that is PRIDE.
Most of us, especially men, don’t want to admit that we need help or want others in our lives. We have been taught that asking for help or depending on someone else is a weakness.
Satan is winning if we believe that. As a result, we walk through the wilderness, separated from man and God because we are unwilling to seek the help we need.
Where is your wilderness?
Who can you find today to walk through the wilderness with you? The journey is much easier when you share it with someone.
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